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A Recipe On Getting The
Most Out Of Living With Cancer |
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can be devastating when the doctor breaks the news that we
have cancer. Whilst our mindset is taking a long time to
change to the new idea of living with a disease, we start
off by thinking that we are dying of cancer. As time and
experience takes us along the pathway to recovery, we
steadily begin to revise our way of thinking and begin to
register that we can and are living with cancer.
Every living being is constantly striving to get the most
out of life. What more if we are facing a life-threatening
disease and we do not try to get the most out of living with
it. It is not surprising that the struggle to survive can
become the key factor in cancer. Many go to their wits end
searching for miraculous cures, as the saying goes,
“clutching to the last straw to keep alive”. It is not
surprising that the ordinary lives of those living with
cancer after medical treatment are not highlighted. On the
contrary, those who are living extraordinary lives due to
some mysteriously curious method of a “miraculous cure” are
always published for the public to be waylaid.
Whilst the nation is building its population to face the
challenges of an increasingly developed country, some
sectors seem to be regressing. Sadly, the few Malaysians who
are into the reading culture are referring to the wrong
materials. We seem to be more convinced by mysterious
methods of treatment of cancer rather than the hard facts of
science that have been endured through rigorous research and
clinical trials before they are approved for use by the
consumer. Many sectors that are trying to sell their
products and unproven methods of “screening or treatment”
for cancer, are taking full advantage of our vulnerability.
Medical technology has advanced such that one can live with
the disease after it has been treated by scientifically
proven methods. As I have always introduced myself: “I am
living with breast cancer”, it proves that one can continue
with one’s role and function in society quite normally. Of
course early detection and prompt medical treatment are
essential components of the early stages of living with
cancer.
To get to this stage, each person diagnosed with cancer,
should not leave any stone of medical treatment unturned.
Using our experience of health screening, diagnosis,
treatment and recovery of breast cancer we are willing to
guide you and your loved ones in the right direction in
life. Most Malaysians are either directly or indirectly
touched by cancer. Regular screening for the healthy lot and
medical follow up sessions are essential with your family
doctor and any medical specialist attending to your specific
existing health problem.
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Preparing for treatment
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helps when a family member or a friend is with you when you
talk to the doctor. Some questions you could ask the doctor
are:
• What kind of cancer do I have?
• What is the stage of the cancer?
• What kind of treatment would you recommend?
• How much will the treatment cost?
• How do I manage the side effects of the treatment?
• Will I need to reorganise my lifestyle during treatment?
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Tips On Receiving Treatment In
Cancer |
1. Ask the doctor questions
even if you think it may sound silly
2. Take along all your previous screening, diagnostic
materials, x-rays, scans, test results when consulting the
doctor
3. Follow up on your own self-examination as instructed,
e.g., monthly self-breast examination
4. Ensure that your specialist gives you all the
information. It may sound shocking at first, but getting the
hard facts will help you understand your medical condition
and you will be able to manage yourself sensibly.
5. If you read articles regarding your cancer in the net or
in any other materials, check its reliability with your
medical specialist. Due to our vulnerability we are rather
gullible and we can fall prey to any insidious ways that are
aplenty waiting for us to empty our bank account and earn
fame, leaving us as “victims of frauds and quacks”. If you
are keen to take herbs, you must inform your medical
specialist. The effects of herbs and medical treatment could
clash and you may suffer the consequences.
6. Diet in cancer is a popular topic and it is highly
capitalised upon by those who can get hold of you. The
testimonies are so convincing that you may be tricked into
believing that certain foods can actually cure the disease.
There are cancer survivors resorting to kilo-loads of
carrots for juice daily, an overload of wheat grass, and
many other so-called remedies. On the contrary these amounts
are actually damaging rather than curative or restorative.
Check with a dietitian in the hospital before you change
your diet.
7. Diagnosis of cancer should be followed by systematic
scientifically proven medical treatment which is crucial to
keep you alive and at the same time give you a good quality
of life. Consult your team of specialists which could
include a surgeon, an oncologist, and other related medical
specialists.
8. During treatment you may face side effects that many of
us have experienced. Contact NGOs for emotional support and
practical information
Breast Cancer Welfare Association (+603-7954 0133),
National
Cancer Society of Malaysia (+603-2698 7300),
Hospis Malaysia (+603-9133 3936)
9. Whilst second opinions can help, it is essential for you
to be clear as to what you will do with two contrasting
opinions which could cause confusion. Be thorough with your
questions and queries with your specialist so that you can
get to the bottom of the whole issue of diagnosis, treatment
and recovery.
Many Malaysians also think that specialists abroad
especially in the neighbouring countries are better
qualified and equipped with knowledge and skills. By the
way, our specialists are trained in exactly the same
renowned higher learning institutions and they have more
experience due to our higher population. It is true that one
of the drawbacks we face as medical consumers is that we
choose the medical specialist after listening to friends and
colleagues. Isn’t it important that we have access to a list
of suitably qualified medical specialists so that we can
feel secure about our treatment and recovery?
10. Remember that you are very vulnerable at this stage, so
be cautious when anyone tries to convince you regarding a
miraculous cure for your condition. Your medical specialist
is the best person to seek for advice. Be a critic when
reading information and articles on cancer cures on the net
or any unauthorised sites.
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Tips On Managing Yourself During
Recovery In Cancer |
1. The
journey to recovery can be filled with mixed feelings of
anxiety and relief. You may want to shift into the first
gear to a new lifestyle. Do not forget your regular follow
up medical appointments with your specialist whilst you are
living with cancer.
2. A balanced diet and regular exercises help us to regain
and maintain our well being. If you want to change your
eating habits consult the dietitian in your hospital.
3. Develop hobbies and activities for yourself that make you
feel good. Treat each day as a new beginning.
4. Seek the company of friends and colleagues you enjoy.
Indulge in comedies, be they movies or books.
5. Do not be ashamed. Tell those around you that you are
living with cancer and ensure that they congratulate you for
having battled the disease successfully. They will admire
you for your endeavours.
6. Participate in a peer support group of people with a
similar condition as yourself. Eventually you will also find
yourself being a role model to other new patients. Make
yourself useful to society and you will feel good. Your
cancer experience can help someone cope with his or her
cancer.
7. Rebuilding confidence and bouncing back to active life
can take time. Stay close to friends and family members who
encourage positive attitudes in you.
8. Do not procrastinate. You have another chance to live. If
you feel like doing something, do not hesitate. Just Do
It!!!
9. Always remember that you are on the road to recovery.
Your whole life is ahead of you. The sky is the limit. Make
the most of being alive. |
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